Hey, today, I’m going to be telling you about some of the signs you want to be looking for that indicate your ex still loves you and wants you back.
First of all, you should know that if your relationship with this ex was even remotely serious, if you were together for more than a few months,
I can guarantee you that they do still have feelings for you. To a certain extent, they still do miss you. They still do love, to a certain degree. The question is whether that those feelings are strong enough that they actually want you back. That’s what we’re going to be looking at this video, signs that indicate that. I should also warn you, you don’t want to over analyze too much. Don’t spend the rest of your life just trying to read meaning into places where there probably isn’t anything to be read into. It’s not going to help you get over your ex and it really isn’t useful. Don’t over analyze.
Also, I am going to give you a link to this at the end of the post. Let’s get on to it. Let’s look at some of the signs that indicate that your ex wants you back.
One of the first signs you want to be looking for that indicate your ex wants you back, is pretty obvious, and that’s if they contact you.
If your ex is reaching out to you, especially if they’re doing it regularly, if they’re sending you messages or calling you daily, that’s a very strong signal.
Of course, it’s a lot less strong if they’re calling you once a month since the breakup. That’s less strong. Certainly, if your ex is reaching out to you actively without you initiating any contact on your side, then that’s definitely a signal.
Also, in addition to the frequency of this contact, the way they’re contacting you can also be a signal. If your ex is phoning you, dropping by your house, these are things that are stronger indications of interest than simply a text message, a Facebook message there.
Another thing you want to think about is, if they are contacting you, what are they talking about?
What’s the topics of conversation that you and your ex are having when they contact you? Are they concerned about you? Are they asking about you and trying to stay up to date on your life? Do they genuinely seem interested or is it simply all about paying unpaid bills or dealing with getting back their shoes from your house?
Whatever it is, think about the nature of the conversations and if it’s more sincere and they really genuinely seem to still care about you during these conversations, that’s obviously a stronger sign.
Also, if your ex asks to meet up. If they want to physically want to meet up and hang out with you, that is a very good sign, at least to some degree, that they’re still interested in you, that they’re still thinking about you, and that they want to be around you.
Another sign to look out for is, if your ex asks you to be friends. If they reach out to you and say, “Let’s stay friends.” First of all, this is something I don’t recommend, but if they do ask that, it is a good sign and it does mean that they are afraid of losing you from their life completely.
They don’t want to let go. They’re still some emotional connection there and they want retain you in their life, at least to some degree. That’s a good sign.
Similarly, along the same lines of friends, if you and your ex share mutual friends, if you had a shared social circle, and if you find that your ex is asking about you or talking about you to these mutual friends, then that’s a very good indication that, not only are you on your ex’s mind, but you’re on your ex’s mind enough that they’re actually bringing you up with friends and talking about it.
If you do hear that through the grapevine from mutual friends, that’s another good sign that they’re still thinking about you and interested in you.
Another thing is, when your ex contacts you, and if we assume that they are contacting you, if they bring up things like inside jokes, shared positive memories that no one else will understand or if they actively say, “I miss you,” or they throw out sexual innuendos, these are things that you need to be thinking about and looking for in their context.
Especially bringing up things that are happy memories that you shared together that no one else knows, they show that your ex is nostalgic to some degree and missing these certain elements of your relationship and wanting to bring them up and think about them again. That’s a good sign.
Finally, this is going to seem a little obvious, but if they flirt and they touch you a lot, if there’s a lot of … Generally, things that they wouldn’t do with members of the opposite sex, but they’re doing them with you when you’re in person, you’re seeing your ex.
Obviously, that’s a great sign and it does indicate that they’re still thinking of you as possibly more than a friend.
Another very strong indicator that your ex is still interested and possibility wants to get back together, is jealousy. This is one that you’re definitely going to want to be looking for.
As it mentioned in Ex Factor Guide Program, it’s something that will really help you get your ex back and that’s jealousy.
If your ex seems jealous when you’re doing pretty much anything, hanging out with people of the opposite sex. If they find out that you’ve been on dates. If they see you posting new pictures on social media of you with other men or other women.
Whatever it is, if your ex is jealous, it’s a clear indication that they still are holding on to that romantic or that connection and they haven’t let go. Jealousy is a very strong signal to look for that indicates that your ex is potentially interested in getting back together.
Finally, this one’s a little bit more ambiguous, if your ex seems particularly depressed, distraught, heartbroken.
All the breakup emotions, if they seem amplified or they seem to last longer than you would have expected in your ex, if your ex seems particularly distraught, if they come to you crying, things like that.
If they just generally don’t seem to be handling the break up well, that’s a strong signal that they may want to get back together or certainly they’re having second thoughts about their decision to break up with you.
That’s about it for this post.
There’s lots of other signs that your ex still in love with you, you can be looking for, but probably the best way to figure out whether your ex wants you back or not, is to check out The Ex Factor Guide program.